Values continued...
True enough. I might add it’s the job of other “institutions,” as well, say, the occasional visit to church, synagogue, or mosque; participation in kid organizations; neighborhood experiences, and so on. Parents direct all these things, but some parents do a better job of it than others.
Parents play a dominant role, but school is right up there, whether we like it or not. As a high school English teacher, I wouldn’t know how to teach literature without recognizing characters’ values. This may be somewhat of a simplification, but how can you teach Macbeth without acknowledging horrible ambition; Hamlet without paralyzing indecision; Romeo and Juliet without witless rivalry? How can you teach The Catcher in the Rye without admitting an aversion to change and fear of growing up; To Kill a Mockingbird without a condemnation of unremitting prejudice; Lord of the Flies without wondering how thin the veneer of “civility”; Huckelberry Finn without seeing hypocrisy however humorously depicted? What about biographies and autobiographies – what better way to learn about the values of famous historical figures than from their life stories?
If I had been a history teacher, how would I have taught the Civil War – or any war for that matter – without a debate, about the conflict of values? How to learn about the founding of our own country? How to discuss current events?
It seems to me when you put kids and adults together, there are going to be values taught and learned - sometimes in both directions. Kids watch adults all the time and they’re learning from what we say and what we do. Yes, we teach values in school – we can’t help it.
While you consider those ideas, I’ll finish up with my final thoughts later this week…
7/2/2008 1:54:33 PM
If it's the parents job to teach values. Who's job is it to teach parents how "to teach values?".
In the absense of teaching what values are learned?
If we want better parents who better than an educational institution that is working with the children to teach parents how to be better parents? But of course that would take thinking out of the box.
Much easier to play the blame game, than to work on a solution.
Anonymous
9/16/2009 1:29:49 PM
Schools are the most solid foundation in one's life. I agree that values do differ in each family. I mean one parents wouldn't mind their kids having a social life so early in their age and some may mind it. But the values and morals should be taught by the School as well. I know there comes contradictions in the minds of Children when a teacher tells them to be nice to them even if they do wrong to you while you see your parents that they're not nice with those who are good to them. They should be sync so the children can see correct values around it. I still believe parents and their actions can do a lot of good to Children in terms of teaching them the values and morals but school should also keep repeating them and create a environment which works as a model for them so they can practice those values and morals with other students and as the result, when they grow up it becomes natural to them to help others, being nice to everyone etc.
P.S. I have said it but don't know how to implement it lol, because ofcourse it's tough but maybe Schools and Parents coordinate with each other and work on individual groups and make categories.
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